The task is to administer that same consistent treatment to your child regardless of the calendar date. Letting an active user come home to today’s family cookout will normally end in tears. Balance and protect your life. Keep your expectations in check.
Parents often try to love their child out drug use by showering them with holiday gifts. Extravagant gifts will not “cure” your addicted child. That expensive gift will potentially be sold on the street, and fed to the addiction through a straw up their nose, or needle in their arm. The gift is merely a Band-Aid attempt by a parent in denial at making everything seem “nice”.